As we approach the half way mark of the trip I thought I would write a post on how we are all going so far!
On the road, between Mareeba and Chillagoe |
The first couple of weeks of our holiday flew
by with us visiting places we had already been to on the WA coast for family
holidays. It wasn’t until we got up to Broome that we were somewhere new.
Broome was our relaxing week and we were really in holiday mode there. We blew
the budget but had lunches out and relaxed by the pool and drank far too much alcohol.
I have to say about week 5 was the hardest
for us all, when we got to Katherine. It was like the ‘holiday’ should be over
and I should have been heading home to recover! Only it wasn’t over and we
still had five months ahead of us!! We had just come off the Gibb River Road.
We had been eating pretty bad because fruit and veg was non-existent out there
and our supply of it only lasted a week in. Also we had been looking forward to
Gibb River road and sort of hadn’t thought much past it! So once it was done we
were like hmmm… what now. I hadn’t slept well and the kids were sick of being
in the car. Craig was frustrated with us all and had no patience left for the
kids. So basically it was a tough couple of days while we sorted ourselves out!
We had a big discussion and realized we were on a holiday of a lifetime so we needed
to get out of the funk and get on with it! I’m happy to say it was a turning
point and it was after this that the kids stopped asking to go ‘home’ and
stopped asking for ‘this teddy or that toy at home’.
I
have met lots of fellow travellers and they have all said the same thing, week
5 or 6 is a tough one. Once you are past it you’re fine! One mum I met at the
gym in Cairns told me in week 5 she screamed to her husband to ‘stop the effing
car’ and she got out and started walking! She said she couldn’t physically be
in the car with the kids anymore!! Another lady told me she started looking at
flights to go home in week 4. Her husband was still in work mode and was
stressing her out with his constant pacing and lack of patience to their two
kids. So if you are planning a trip like this beware of the dreaded month in!!
Although we are really just on an ‘extended
holiday’ this life is a big thing to adjust to, especially with three small
kids. Added to that, the few months before we left Perth were rather stressful.
We sold our family home and moved into our second property, our investment unit
that was small with no yard. I went from being at home and having a regular
routine with Craig working 7-5 and me being at home with the kids, doing school
drop offs and having Abigail at kindy part time. Now we are all together, all
the time and living in a small space. We are setting up and packing up the
camper on a regular basis and we are spending a fair bit of time in the car
together.
on one of our many bush walks |
Having said that we have all adjusted to
this life and now, three months in we love it! Craig and I can set up the
camper in about 20 minutes, we can talk or laugh as we do it and there’s no
stress. The kids all have little things they do to help. Matilda sweeps out the
camper when we are packingup and she gets the pegs ready on set up. Charlotte
does any odd jobs ‘hold this pole charlotte or grab that’ and Abi. Well she
moves the pegs and steals the hammer! But we are used to it by now!
Bush camping in the Kimberley |
Its an easy lifestyle. People are friendly
and our days are filled with swimming, water playgrounds, seeing touristy
sites, driving through new places. The kids are so worn out from their days they
are showered and in bed asleep by 7pm. Craig and I spend the evening having a
wine and a beer, or a coffee and tea. We may sit around a campfire with new
friends and chat, or we might sit under our awning and chat together. Or we may
read a book or magazine. We are more relaxed than we have been in years. The
kids are thriving with meeting new people, seeing new places and experiencing
new things. Their schoolwork is going well. We are doing less than I had
originally planned but I am happy with their progress. Craig and I are enjoying
spending our time together. We also love being with the kids as they experience
everything this trip has to offer.
So as I hit this half way mark I am feeling like I want time to slow down! I don’t want it to be half over! But then there is another part of me that is excited for the next three months of our holiday and whatever is going to happen after that!
Things I miss about home
First are the obvious, family…. And my dog.
Having a drink (and cake!) with my friends
My washing machine
Our fridge (the 40 litre Engel is hard work
for a family of 5!)
Having my own bathroom!
Things I don’t miss about home
Making school lunches every day
Washing Craig’s work uniform
Vacuuming
Fake friends (lucky there is only a couple
of people that fit into this category but distance makes you realize who is a
real friend and whois a pain in the arse)
Bills (I pre paid everything before our
trip. Insurances, HBF, etc.Oour only bill these days is my mobile bill as
Craig’s phone is paid for by his work, and I pre paid my personal mobile so far
in advance that I’m still in credit three months in!)
Microwave (I thought I would be lost
without it but I haven’t missed it at all!)
TV. (I LOVE not having the blare of ABC
kids in the morning and the constant distraction of TV noise at night).
Our favourite spots so far
Craig: Wangi Falls, in Northern Territory
Shantelle: Going on the Chopper over the
tip of Cape York , Far North Queensland
Matilda: Skyrail in Cairns, Queensland
Charlotte: Going on the camel ride in
Broome, Western Australia
Abigail: A waterpark (ask her tomorrow it
will be different!)
Another day another sunset |
I love that you're loving it and are relaxing!!!! ☺ makes it all worthwhile xx
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ReplyDeleteso glad you guys are having a great trip! enjoy the next half xx
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